20, lot of NSFW, Warhammer, Starcraft, Pacifc Rim, Abridged series, furry (posts of that on rarer days but stay out of my 'Likes' area >3>), own a side porn blog but because tumblr is dumb sometimes and i have difficulties updating it :( also art such as concept art, Guild Wars 2

LGBTQ+ and i tag 'NSFW', Annie (SNK) forever my favorite along with Deadman Wonderland so occasionally there will be posts about those

My gender? A mystery.

Also from Ontario, Canada

Submission and ask is always open so ask or send away

 

Some thoughts on "Doms" I've met

sterlingsea:

Fake-actually-a-rapist-abusive-piece-of-shit-doms are dime a dozen.

You’d think they’d be more diverse, but all of the ones I’ve met have been the exact same.

  • Older, pursuing younger. No, I don’t mean a 35-year-old hitting on 25-year-old. I mean the youngest fake Dom that I ever got involved with (for work, just chatting as a friend in the community, or even collaring) was 27. I haven’t even turned 21 yet, and I started looking into BDSM when I was 17. All their Ex-subs? Under 22, mostly 19/18. And when I bothered to check up on who they were dominating years later, the vast majority of their subs are still 18/19.  18/19. Virgins, or with almost no sexual experience. Definitely no real BDSM experience.  Why are these grown-ass men sniffing after underage or generally inexperienced girls? That’s a rhetorical question. You know why.
  • Had no game.  Couldn’t flirt with me.  No seduction. No nothing. Just “Hi I’m a Dom.  Okay I’m your Dom now. Choke on my cock bitch.” Kind of like they couldn’t get a girl to agree to do anything with them unless they were in a position where they could demand things. 
  • Had no experience, and would not admit it. No one is born an experienced Dom, but no inexperienced Dom should be hiding the fact that they haven’t been around much.  I’ve had “Doms” demonstrate lack of basic anatomical/safe sex knowledge (“You can fit that up your ass without lube, that won’t potentially injure you! Masturbate with that object even though it has sharp edges!  Why can’t you bend that way, you’re just being difficult!”).  No knowledge of how to use non-verbal safewords.  Talking about ropework without knowing anything about rope.  Acting like you know everything when you don’t know anything is so dangerous.
  • Were rapists. A Dom that doesn’t talk to you about consent upfront is not a real Dom.  A Dom that ignores your safe-word is a rapist. A Dom that tries to talk you out of having a safe-word is a rapist.  A Dom that doesn’t learn your blacklist or ignores it is a rapist.  If your Dom does anything to void your ability to withdraw consent, they are a rapist. 

Honestly, the fake Doms that I’ve come across have all been old men pursuing inexperienced vulnerable teenagers because no experienced older woman would touch them.  They hid behind BDSM to hide the fact that they couldn’t be seductive otherwise. They pretended to have experience they were not even close to having. And they were rapists.

jaclcfrost:

do u ever have a thought that’s so fuckin inappropriate that u feel like dumping a bucket of water on urself like. calm down, self. tone it down. think about jesus

jakemalik:

my dad hid in the shower once with a jar jar binks mask and a knife just to scare me and got it on camera

jakemalik:

my dad hid in the shower once with a jar jar binks mask and a knife just to scare me and got it on camera

(Source: hi)

burningoleander:

midnight-emotive:

'if lesbians use dildos why don't they just have sex with a man?'

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'if straight men like fucking women in the ass why don't they just fuck men?'

dat-soldier:

cyberlocc:

but do aliens believe in me….

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we always believed in you, and so should you….

Information is a lot like water; it’s hard to hold on to, and hard to keep from leaking away.

Ruth Ozeki, A Tale for the Time Being (via wordsnquotes)